Saturday, October 29, 2005

she is awesome

It taught me that time is precious
nothing in life or the universe is static

randomness of unusual events is something to be embraced,
not foughtthere are people from my own tribe out there,

I just had to go to the right spot to find them,
that I can make people laugh and connect with me on many deep levels

I am not a freak, oddball, too intense or passionate with this tribe
that I can be a freak, oddball and intense and passionate without having people run away from me with this tribe

life is full of surprises - and it's those surprises that make life a learning and loving experience

there are many opportunities in new beginnings
the world is my oyster

Besides the mind blowing sex (and apparently, some men think that I was just waaay amazing with my oral sex technique...),

I went by myself - for 10 days in a big big city and came back more than okay.

I went there, found myself and came back new.
I happened to stumble across a quote and site that once again,
popped up at the perfect time and says all the things I want to say,

and now believe in implicitly.(did a gig last night - it was great! 15 hours of shooting but hell!
We ate and ate and sipped martinis the whole evening and shooters at night - and this was on company time!!! LOL!

What a welcome back!)So as it stands now - I will be making my trek there at the end of November/beginning of December.

I heard that winter in the city is quite beautiful...You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you'll discover will be wonderful. What you'll discover is yourself.
~Alan Alda


sorry cant disclose her id

Saturday, October 01, 2005

brainstorming ...

Books that i have read
  • Bible
  • Taming of the shrew
  • Godfather
  • Catch -22
  • Future Shock
  • one flew over the cuckoo's nest
  • Sons and Lovers
  • Zen and the art of motor cycle maintenance

Books dat i wish i had read earlier
  • How to win friendz and girl friends
  • How to be a sensuous old man
  • The Alchemist

Books dat I wish to read
  • Bhagwad Gita
  • Kuran

Books dat I wish i hadnt read
  • Wat is rong wid the catlik church
  • Omen

Saturday, September 24, 2005

SSB's treasure chest of quotes

A day without sunshine is like night"

"I just got lost in thought. It was unfamiliar territory."

"99% of lawyers give the rest a bad name."

"Honk if you love peace and quiet."

"I wonder how much deeper the ocean would be without sponges."

"Remember half the people you know are below average."

"The early bird may get the worm but the second mouse gets the cheese."

"He who laughs last thinks slowest.""

"Eagles may soar but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines."

"Nothing is foolproof to a talented fool."

"Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm."

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Blog Polly see of Lady Sapho ..

Personal relationships and privacy
Do not assume that you know everything there is to know about a writer simply because you read their weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make will be based on the information they have provided you about themselves, which is probably vague, incomplete or embellished. Whatever opinion you form on them as people, or their life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the reader. An obvious exception to this would be if someone were asking for advice or opinions.Never contact the writer for more details on events or personal information than what they have already provided on the site. Chances are if the information you seek isn't readily available, they have found it too personal or innapropriate to share. If you are close to the person they will eventually tell you privately, so intrusive questions are not necessary, just leave it alone. If you are meant to know, you will.If you have a real life relationship with the writer, remember that communication is very important. View weblogs as online journals, no less sacred than a diary hidden between the mattresses. First of all let them know that you read their site, especially if they did not tell you personally.If they do not want you reading it, or suddenly stop posting entries, ask them why and if necessary, stop going to the site. It is important that as a friend, relative, co-worker or whatever you may be to the writer, that your presence at their weblog not impede their ability to express themselves. Remember this is their outlet. They may not want you to read certain things they might write about you or others you care about, in order to spare your feelings, avoid drama or maintain their privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the site, and never relay any information you gather at their site to others who might use it against them.If someone writes about you and you don't appreciate it, approach them about it. Try to remain calm and polite. Explain that you are entitled to your privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are upset because they are writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with the writer. If that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. They will eventually get bored and move on.Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family members who have been cut out of the writer's life should refrain from reading their journal. If the relationship has ended, there is no reason you should get daily updates on the person's life. If you simply can't help yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt the writer.
Feedback and initiating contactIf they have a guestbook, sign it. Compliments will always be graciously accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a problem with something, but try to remain constructive and not be an asshole. No one is forcing you to give out your opinions, so if you don't have anything remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.When contacting a person for the first time, have a clue. If they have a detailed biography and personal information that describes their life from the day they were born, chances are they won't appreciate you wasting their time asking them how old they are or where they live. Writers put a lot of thought and time into their sites, so take the time to read the information they provide you with before you ask for more.Never assume a writer owes you any response. They may receive from a few to hundreds of messages per day. Some will gladly write back immediately, others will never reply. Try not to take it personally, because chances are it has more to do with their schedule than anything else. If you get upset and nasty about feeling rejected, you will probably ruin any chances you had of befriending the person.Don't delude yourself into thinking that you will be as important to the writer as he/she is to you. Remember, you are peering in on their life, sharing their thoughts, and though they may become quite special to you, you remain a mystery to them. If they are cold or unreceptive to your advances, keep in mind that you are a stranger to them at this point, and they may or may not want to keep it that way. It's entirely their choice.Don't be a psycho stalker.You shouldn't contact people with messenger services unless they list their handles on their website. If you got it from someone else, forget you ever had it, they probably meant to keep it somewhat private.A writer has the right to stop writing at any time for any reason they see fit, and at no point must they justify or explain these reasons to you or any of their readers. It's their weblog, they can do with it as they please.
Offensive language and materialsThe internet is a place that encourages free and creative expression, and as in any environment where people are given this freedom, conflict may arise. If an author uses language or materials that offend you, leave. Contacting the person or their isp, demanding they remove the content or change their ways is absurd because you are viewing their content of your own free will by visiting their site. Simply stop going there and you won't have to see whatever it is you don't like about the site. An obvious exception to this would be if someone were providing illegal materials, in which case it would be appropriate to complain to their isp or contact wuthorities.
Copyright and courtesyNever ask someone to make you a layout, to help with your site or show you how to do a certain script or graphic effect that they have on their site, unless they specifically offer their help. There are plenty of tutorials available to help you, just use a search engine to find what you need.Never use anything off a person's site, be it writing, images or html code, unless they say otherwise. People are very attached to their work and don't usually respond well when others help themselves to it. Copyright is protected by law and in effect the minute something is created, whether the author has a © notice or not. There are online tools where you can learn about copyright laws like What is Copyright?and Redistribution In Graphics Has To Stop.Under no circumstances should you ever direct link anything, this includes link buttons and any other graphics the writer may offer. Direct linking is when you type something like to display the yahoo link button, instead of actually saving it and uploading it on to your server. It is essentially bandwidth theft, because it uses data transfer, and the owner of the server has to pay for it. Always save the image and upload it to your own server unless the author specifically states you can do otherwise.

Wednesday, September 07, 2005

Wise men are usually old men .....

George Santayana Quotes
A child educated only at school is an uneducated child.
George Santayana

A man's feet should be planted in his country, but his eyes should survey the world. George Santayana

A string of excited, fugitive, miscellaneous pleasures is not happiness; happiness resides in imaginative reflection and judgment, when the picture of one's life, or of human life, as it truly has been or is, satisfies the will, and is gladly accepted.
George Santayana

Advertising is the modern substitute for argument; its function is to make the worse appear the better. George Santayana

All living souls welcome whatever they are ready to cope with; all else they ignore, or pronounce to be monstrous and wrong, or deny to be possible. George Santayana

All thought is naught but a footnote to Plato. George Santayana

Almost every wise saying has an opposite one, no less wise, to balance it. George Santayana

America is a young country with an old mentality. George Santayana

An artist is a dreamer consenting to dream of the actual world. George Santayana

Before you contradict an old man, my fair friend, you should endeavor to understand him. George Santayana

Bid, then, the tender light of faith to shine By which alone the mortal heart is led Unto the thinking of the thought divine. George Santayana

By nature's kindly disposition most questions which it is beyond a man's power to answer do not occur to him at all. George Santayana

Chaos is a name for any order that produces confusion in our minds. George Santayana

Character is the basis of happiness and happiness the sanction of character. George Santayana

Depression is rage spread thin. George Santayana

Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men. George Santayana

Each religion, by the help of more or less myth, which it takes more or less seriously, proposes some method of fortifying the human soul and enabling it to make its peace with its destiny. George Santayana

Emotion is primarily about nothing and much of it remains about nothing to the end. George Santayana

Experience seems to most of us to lead to conclusions, but empiricism has sworn never to draw them. George Santayana

Fanaticism consists of redoubling your effort when you have forgotten your aim. George Santayana

Fashion is something barbarous, for it produces innovation without reason and imitation without benefit. George Santayana

For a man who has done his natural duty, death is as natural as sleep. George Santayana

For gold is tried in the fire and acceptable men in the furnace of adversity. George Santayana

Friends are generally of the same sex, for when men and women agree,it is only in the conclusions; their reasons are always different. George Santayana

Friends need not agree in everything or go always together, or have no comparable other friendships of the same intimacy. George Santayana

Friendship is almost always the union of a part of one mind with the part of another; people are friends in spots. George Santayana

Fun is a good thing but only when it spoils nothing better. George Santayana

Graphic design is the paradise of individuality, eccentricity, heresy, abnormality, hobbies and humors. George Santayana

History is a pack of lies about events that never happened told by people who weren't there. George Santayana

I believe in general in a dualism between facts and the ideas of those facts in human heads. George Santayana

I like to walk about among the beautiful things that adorn the world; but private wealth I should decline, or any sort of personal possessions, because they would take away my liberty. George Santayana

If pain could have cured us we should long ago have been saved. George Santayana

In endowing us with memory, nature has revealed to us a truth utterly unimaginable to the unreflective creation, the truth of immortality... The most ideal human passion is love, which is also the most absolute and animal and one of the most ephemeral. George Santayana

In Greece wise men speak and fools decide. George Santayana


In 1893, Santayana experienced a metanoia, a change of heart. Gradually he altered his style of life from that of an active student turned professor to one focused on the imaginative celebration of life. In doing so, he began planning for his early retirement, finding university life increasingly less conducive to intellectual pursuits and delight in living. Three events preceded his metanoia: the unexpected death of a young student, witnessing his father's death, and the marriage of his sister Susana. Santayana's reflections on these events led to the ancient wisdom that acceptance of the tragic leads to a lyrical release. “Cultivate imagination, love it, give it endless forms, but do not let it deceive you. Enjoy the world, travel over it, and learn its ways, but do not let it hold you … . To possess things and persons in idea is the only pure good to be got out of them; to possess them physically or legally is a burden and a snare (Persons and Places, 427-28).”

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

No woman, no cry

No woman, no cry (Repeat 4 times)'Cause I remember when we used to sitIn the government yard in TrenchtownOba, ob-serving the hypocritesAs they would mingle with the good people we meetGood friends we have had, oh good friends we've lost along the wayIn this bright future you can't forget your pastSo dry your tears I sayNo woman, no cryNo woman, no cryLittle darlin' don't shed no tearsNo woman, no crySaid, said, said I remember when we used to sitIn the government yard in TrenchtownAnd then Georgie would make the fire lightLog wood burnin' through the nightThen we would cook corn meal porridgeOf which I'll share with youMy feet is my only carriageSo I've got to push on throughBut while I'm gone...Ev'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightEv'rything's gonna be alrightSo, no woman, no cryNo, no woman, no woman, no cryOh, little darling, don't shed no tearsNo woman, no cryNo woman, no woman, no woman, no cryNo woman, no cryOh, my little darlin' please don't shed no tearsNo woman, no cry, yeah

Friday, July 22, 2005

a moment of clarity as seen by Kerry ...

perhaps, like me,
you have been focusing to much time, energy, and faith on someone other than yourself?

this leads to sadness darlings.
happiness, true happiness, is found from within ones self.
for when we are balanced and secure from deep inside of our inner self,
the darkness can't penetrate our souls
and cause; anger, confussion, fear, and hopelessness.

focus for me darling!
focus on your best quality.
find the serenity which lives deep inside of your soul.
soar freely on your wings
which are full of grace and love.
free you passion-be yourself...

dat was a moment of clarity as seen by Kerry
http://kadams734.blogspot.com/2005/07/clarity.html


why girls love mature 'men' rather than 'boyz'

'u saw me crying in the chapel'
'i will be doing my crying in the rain'

'tere bina kya jeena'
'tie a yellow ribbon round the old oak tree'

'money cant buy me love'
'the indecent proposal'

'main love ke liye, kucch bhi karoonga'
'i didnt promise u a rose garden'

and,
'frankly lady, i dont give a damn'


and guys,

First I was afraid
I was petrified


Kept thinking I could never live
Without you by my side

But then I spent so many nights

Just thinkin' how you did me wrong

And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along

But now you're back
From outer space

I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
I should've changed that stupid lock
I should've made you leave you key
If I'd of known for just on second you'd be back to bother me


Boy now go
Walk out the door
Don't turn around now
'Cause you're not welcome anymore

Weren't you the one
Who tried to hurt me with goodbye
You think I'd crumble
You think I'd lay down and die

Oh no nah no
Walk out the door
Don't turn around now
'Cause you're not welcome anymore

Weren't you the one
Who tried to hurt me with goodbye
You think I'd crumble
You think I'd lay down die
Oh no not I

I will survive
As long as I know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give

I will survive
I will survive

Todos de pies,
todo mundo...
eso Talk about talk about talk about Talk about it
Talk about talk about talk about movin'

Gotta move on

Gotta move on
Gotta move on

Won't you take me to Funky Town
Won't you take me to Funky Town
Won't you take me to Funky Town
Won't you take me to Funky Town

Let me hear you IT guys, India!




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Wednesday, July 13, 2005

the english, the french, the irish ...

'we cant trust ppl who have such bad food'
-French President Jacques Chirac